When writing makes your child anxious
Your child erases until the paper tears, refuses to write a word they cannot spell, or gets upset over a letter that is not perfect. Making mistakes safe is the first step.
For: Parents, teachers and therapists of children aged 4 to 8
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- Some children feel strongly that work must be perfect.
- A mistake on paper feels permanent to them.
- Anxiety uses up attention that writing needs.
What helps
- A “try it” box first, then a “best try”.
- Model making mistakes yourself and fixing them calmly.
- Cross out with one line instead of erasing.
- Short tasks with a clear end.
- Praise effort and bravery.
The planstep by step.
1Try, then best
Practice where trying is the point.
2Brave words
Self-talk card and a first-then board.
3Calm pages
Uncluttered letter pages with a clear end.
When to ask for help
Talk to your doctor or the school if worry about mistakes is strong, happens in many areas of life, or stops your child from taking part.
These worksheets are practice materials, not a diagnosis or a treatment. Every child develops at their own pace. If you are worried, talk to your child’s teacher, doctor or a specialist.
Should I take away the eraser?
Related packs
Sources
The LetterSchool app
Between worksheets: practise in the app
The same letter shapes as this sheet, with instant feedback on every line, animations and stars. Children play, and learn the right formation.